Busy Bodies

Dear Short Answers: There are two people at work who are sleeping together — absolutely, positively, beyond a shadow of a doubt I know that this is true. The problem is that “she” is married and “he” has a gay husband. This is surely going to end badly. What can I do to help? Very [...]

Keep It Simple

Dear Short Answers: There is a new woman who joined our office who is absolutely delightful. She is smart, well-dressed, and probably in her 50s. The problem is that she seems to have no social life AT ALL. I would love to set her up on a date with one of my friends but I [...]

Equal Opportunity

Der Short Answers: It really pisses me off that people hold gay marriages to a higher standard. Gay friends of mine who were briefly married are now seeking divorce and the whole town is buzzing about it. Straight people are rolling their eyes and gay people seem embarrassed. Some marriages don’t work. Is this new [...]

Inevitable Outcomes

Dear Short Answers: My dad decided to leave his second marriage at 75 after failing to convince his second wife (to join him) in a three-some. The new woman is homosexual and 25 years younger then him. It seems a little precarious and I am not sure how to handle it. Please help. Concerned for [...]

The Best Defense

Dear Short Answers: In the small town where I live, I have a large group of friends.  Some of us are single, others are married (or on their 2nd or 3rd marriage). A couple of them have started to hint that they would like to introduce “sex” into the group. I’m not exactly sure what [...]

Switch Hitting?

Dear Short Answers: I have always thought that I was gay and have been happily having sex with men for 20 years. Until recently. There is a new woman at work who I absolutely adore. I even have dreams about having sex with her. I’d love to ask her out and see what happens. Should [...]

Never Assume

Dear Short Answers: I am 26 years old, very tall and thin and very blond and everybody thinks I am gay — but I’m not. Girls at work try to set me up with other guys and even my mother has arranged blind dates with gay sons of her friends. How do I tell them [...]

When You Don’t Know; You Don’t Know

Dear Short Answers: Why do some people not like gay, bisexual or lesbian people? FAQ Dear FAQ: Bigotry generally starts with ignorance.  Ignorance leads to fear and anger and so it goes. Like Unlike

Dangerous Liaisons

Dear Short Answers: I am gay but am good friends with a married (straight) couple who invites me over for dinner quite often. I have started to get the sense that the husband is coming on to me and it makes me very nervous. Or maybe they want a 3-some. That’s even worse because I [...]

Will and Grace?

Dear Short Answers: I just broke up with my boyfriend and at least for now we can’t afford to get separate places so we have to stay living together. Fortunately, we have 2 bedrooms. The other morning, I saw a guy sneaking out of my ex-boyfriend’s bedroom. I never imagined that my BF might be [...]

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