Context Is Everything

Dear Short Answers: How do you tell the difference between love and sex? Need to Know Dear Need to Know: If you really need to know — you already know. Otherwise don’t ask the question. Like Unlike

A Million Naked Stories

Dear Short Answers: Do you think having an affair is a deal breaker in a long marriage? Asking for a Friend Dear Friend: We don’t think it needs to be, but it actually isn’t our opinion that matters on this one. Tell your friend there is a lot of work to be done to restore […]

Equal Rights

Dear Short Answers: Can dogs and cats be gay? Inquiring Mind Dear Inquiring: Yes they can! Like Unlike

Hang in…

Dear Short Answers: I have long expected that my son was gay but I always assumed that he would tell me when he was ready. But recently, I ran into the parents of one of his classmates at the grocery store and they casually mentioned how wonderful it was that MY son is dating THEIR […]

Where Angels Fear

Dear Short Answers: Aside from disease, why not sleep around? Don’t Want to Say Who Dear Who: The potential health risks are great and the consequences potentially severe.  The same case can be made for the emotional and psychological risk of sex with many partners or strangers. We gotta say “DON’T”. Take care. Like Unlike

Better Living through Chemistry

Dear Short Answers: My husband and I are in our 70s and this is the third marriage for both of us. Completely out of the blue he announced that he is no longer “capable” of having sex with me and he thinks that I should get some sort of a “machine” to help me do […]

Easier Said than Done

Dear Short Answers: I have my daughter under lock and key — no dating, drugs or alcohol.  But she will be 18 this month. Now what? Dad Dear Dad: Lock and Key is not necessarily what we recommend for teaching teens about responsible choice-making. That said, tell her you are proud of her and that […]

The Answer is “No”

Dear Short Answers: When I was growing up, just about everybody was heterosexual with a few oddballs here and there.  Today, it seems like there are a million different categories from gay to straight to bisexual to transgender.  How do kids today figure out what they are?  Can’t we just go back to the way […]

Conditions Variable

Dear Short Answers: How important is sex in a relationship? On My Mind Dear OMM: Intimacy is always important. Sometimes sex is an expression of intimacy — and sometimes it is just fun. Like Unlike

So It Seems

Dear Short Answers: Do you think that most people have at least one gay sexual experience in their lives?  Just to experiment and see what it’s like? Honest Question Dear Honest: Yes … if only in their dreams! Like Unlike

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