Old game/New Rules

Dear Short Answers: I have a very young friend at work who has started to get very affection toward me — like putting his hand on my leg during a meeting or giving me a hug when we say hello or goodbye.  I am 52 and he is probably in his late 20s.  I can’t [...]

Sounds Good to Us

Dear Short Answers: How do I get my wife more interested in watching porn with me? I find it really turns me on and I’d like to share this experience with her. Excited Dear E: Just tell her. It really turns you on and the absolute very best would be sharing. Like Unlike

Never Mix, Never Worry

Dear Short Answers: What is the etiquette for inviting a divorced couple (along with their new significant others) to a dinner party?  I like them both and would love to meet their new partners but I’m not sure how to handle this.  I don’t want to ruin a good party if they start arguing or [...]

This One Is Easy!

Dear Short Answers: A group of us from my office have been going out to a karaoke bar about once or twice a month for about a year. We all sing maybe one or two songs and just have a good time. The problem is that one of the girls has decided that she is [...]

The Lady or the Tiger or a Nap?

Dear Short Answers: After 20 years of marriage, how do I tell my spouse that I’d like to have sex with other women? It has nothing to do with her but as I get older, I feel like I haven’t explored enough sexually and time is running out. Should I  do this secretly or do [...]

Phone Vienna

Dear Short Answers: I have a recurring dream that seems to involve yards and yards of red velvet. That’s all I can remember… what does this mean? Red Velvet Dear Red Velvet: We haven’t a clue. But it sounds sexy.  Like Unlike

Covert Ops

Dear Short Answers: Is it acceptable to watch pornography on an airplane? Warming Up Dear WU: Sure, if you have a privacy screen or are in Business Class. 1 person likes this post. Unlike