When Is Enough, Enough?

Dear Short Answers: My husband recently threw out his back and has been barely walking for the past 3 weeks. At first, I waited on him hand and foot and made him rest. He basically sat in front of the TV every minute that he was home while I brought him dinner and snacks and [...]

Open a Door, But Wait to be Invited In

Dear Short Answers: I think a friend is ill, but as far as I know, she isn’t seeking medical attention. Should I say something? What should I say? Worried Dear Worried: Ask her if she is feeling okay. You might even say that she doesn’t seem like herself … is there anything you can do?  [...]

How About a Flu Shot?

Dear Short Answers: The people at work are dropping like flies — because of this horrible flu. Of course, they all come to work and hack and cough and sneeze and then go home to bed. Would it be wrong for me to call in sick — so that I can work from home and [...]

Once More, for Good Measure

Dear Short Answers: I’ve had many bouts with skin cancer over the years and fortunately I’ve caught everything in time. Last week, I noticed that a co-worker has developed a nasty mole on the side of his neck that looks very much like cancer to me. I mentioned it to him and he waved it [...]