The Fourth Oldest Story in the World

Dear Short Answers: A casual friend of mine recently went through a very bad divorce with her husband who was cheating on her with one of his co-workers. I know her husband and he’s generally a decent guy so I’m not sure what happened to their relationship.  The problem is that my friend is now [...]

Where Angels Fear

Dear Short Answers: Aside from disease, why not sleep around? Don’t Want to Say Who Dear Who: The potential health risks are great and the consequences potentially severe.  The same case can be made for the emotional and psychological risk of sex with many partners or strangers. We gotta say “DON’T”. Take care. Like Unlike

Equal Opportunity

Dear Short Answers: It has always seemed to me that women are just much nicer than men.  Is that true? Looking at It Dear Looking: We have seen great acts of kindness from men and women. Our culture tends to reward women for compassion (niceness) and men for strength (toughness) but we expect BOTH from [...]

All in Good Time

Dear Short Answers: I suspect that my teenage son and his friends are trying on my clothes when I am not home. Things just seem to be in different places than where I left them.  Should I wait for him to tell me that he is interested in woman’s clothing or should I confront him [...]

It Was the Best of Times, It Was the Worst of Times

Dear Short Answers: When my wife and I got married 3 years ago, we decided to wait until we were settled before we had kids. We now both have jobs and own a home so I think we’re “ready.”  But my wife says she cannot have children as long as Trump is President because the [...]

Fair

Dear Short Answers: My girlfriend and I rented an apartment together and put both of our names on the lease. We’ve recently split up and she wants me to move out.  But the apartment is a terrific deal and it doesn’t bother me if we live in the same place since it’s got two bedrooms. [...]

Organ Recital

Dear Short Answers: A lot of my friends seem to be getting to that age when their health starts failing. Which means that talking about every little problem is the main topic of conversation.  I’ve stopped asking “how are you?” because that simply starts a long list of aches and pains.  How do I communicate [...]

If You Are Gonna Tell the Truth, Tell It All

Dear Short Answers: I went on a business trip a couple of weeks ago to a city that I’ve always wanted to visit. I decided to extend my stay by a day so that I could sightsee but I knew that my wife would be jealous and upset so I didn’t tell her that I [...]