Appearances Can Be Deceiving

Posted on | January 21, 2011 | Comments Off

Dear Short Answers:
I am really struggling over what to do or not do here.  Our daughter is in college and has a boyfriend who seems somewhat effeminate.  My husband and I have wondered if he might be gay. We respect our daughter’s privacy, but wonder if we have a responsibility to ask her about this at some point, depending on where the relationship goes.  Trying to be understanding and respectful.
Still Confused

Dear Still:
You may be right and you could be wrong but advice or questions that are uninvited are more likely to produce bad feelings than insight.


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