Posted on | May 27, 2011 | Comments Off on J’accuse?

Dear Short Answers:
I’m starting to really notice that my boyfriend can be quite selfish.  How do I address this to him without being accusatory?
Hoping to Change Things

Dear Hoping:
Talk about how you feel — not about what he did.    Start with “I feel  that my wishes are not being heard … what should I do?”  If this doesn’t elicit a thoughtful response, honey, you got yourself a loser.


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