Going, Going, Gone

Posted on | June 12, 2011 | Comments Off

Dear Short Answers:
I recently quit my job and sold my house. Most of my friends don’t know about the job and think that I am going to buy a new house. In reality, I simply want to leave town and start someplace new. I haven’t told anyone about this and just want to leave quietly. Is this wrong? I just need a fresh start. I know that people will be upset and worried and angry. But this is about me, isn’t it?

Dear L:
Of course it is about you.  But one note of caution: we are great fans of moving as a vehicle for change — but it can also be a great distraction from whatever issues are making you feel you need a fresh start.


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