Ask the English

Dear Short Answers: Three years ago I felt a change in my sexuality. I’m not  full  blown Gay but I have fallen to cross dressing  — which turns me on now at this advanced age. I am enjoying it, and that is what’s puzzling  to me. How and what happened to my body’s system? Is [...]

Never Assume

Dear Short Answers: I am 26 years old, very tall and thin and very blond and everybody thinks I am gay — but I’m not. Girls at work try to set me up with other guys and even my mother has arranged blind dates with gay sons of her friends. How do I tell them [...]

Will and Grace?

Dear Short Answers: I just broke up with my boyfriend and at least for now we can’t afford to get separate places so we have to stay living together. Fortunately, we have 2 bedrooms. The other morning, I saw a guy sneaking out of my ex-boyfriend’s bedroom. I never imagined that my BF might be [...]

Tricky Dicky

Dear Short Answers: I’m straight but I have a lot of gay friends. Unfortunately, my wife is getting more and more suspicious that we are “more than just friends.” She doesn’t like bars so she refuses to hang out with us. As a joke (we were really, really drunk), a couple gay friends came home [...]

Needed: A Short Answer

Dear Short Answers: After being married for quite a few years (with 3 kids), I came out as gay about 10 years ago. A big reason was this fantastic gay couple who accepted me as a “third” in their relationship. We have been a happy threesome for 10 years now. The problem is that we [...]

Double Happiness

Dear Short Answers: Is it better to choose alcoholism, or homosexuality?  Which gets you happier? Waiting for an Answer Dear Waiting: Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker. 1 person likes this post. Unlike

In or Out

Dear Short Answers: I just found out that a really good friend of mine made some porno movies that are on the internet. It took me a while but I finally found them and it turned out to be gay porno. I never knew that my friend had sex with dudes. But now that I [...]

Three’s a Charm

Dear Short Answers: How do I tell my mother that I’m gay?  She’s a guidance counselor at a high school here in town and you’d think she would understand.  But my older brother and sister are both gay and she flipped out. I’m afraid of what she’s going to do if I tell her.  Should [...]


Dear Short Answers: My best friend thinks he might be gay and wants to sleep with me to find out if he likes sex with girls. Do you think I should? A Pal Dear Pal: Your friend has  either come up with the worst pick up line we ever heard, or has a way to [...]

To Thine Ownself be True

Dear Short Answers: Can I stop being gay? Troubled Dear T: Why do you want to? A much better bet is to get some  counseling help with taking pleasure and pride in who you really are! Like Unlike

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